do you find it funny?

ok so i see a lot of questions where people have extremely perverted situations going on in their marriages or just long term relationships , they ask questions on what people think of it , they are probing looking for just one other perverted person to justify their actions or the actions of their s-o and people with sound moral values are trashed , does this show just how bad some of society is becoming and the thought process of people to justify it , would they even be asking these questions if they them self's did not know something is wrong with it ?